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Cake day: August 10th, 2024

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  • Called my partner’s dad to say Happy Father’s Day. Once we’re in the area, we’ll be going to our favorite steak dinner:)

    Sadly I’ve gone no contact with mine for some years now. Too many differences, and then we had a bad fight that really pissed me off. He was incredibly rude to my long-time partner and I won’t stand for that shit.

    I still hear about him occasionally from my siblings. It’s good to hear he’s healthy. There’s a possibility we could reconnect in the future, but I’m stubborn. And honestly the time apart has done wonders for my mental health🙂 Maybe someday

















  • It’s not good, but that’s why I generally keep it super simple. Makeup, fashion, hobbies, if I’m going to participate lol. Nothing remotely political. In fact - much like online video games, I have other accounts where I don’t reveal my gender or I’ll even talk like a dude on purpose. I already know we’re vastly outnumbered here, so I don’t care to invite mean comments from men. Big kudos to any fighting sisters out there, but I don’t want that stress in my life.

    Maybe I should start treating this place more like my Tumblr and just post pretty pictures I like without giving a fuck lol




  • Dated for a few years, thought well we might as well get married for the perks, then afterwards realized we were just roommates and actually not all that compatible. We were both bored and letting life pass us by. It became my ex would stay out late “due to work” while I truthfully didn’t care. Found myself envying others’ lives, also imagining how life could be with a different partner. So I initiated the divorce, which timed with the apartment lease ending. The divorce process was easy and both sides moved on fairly quickly, so I suspect deep down my ex knew it was right to break up as well.

    As for the fuck up on my part, I didn’t tell him but the realest truth is I stayed in a rebound relationship that should’ve never happened. And I felt comfortable. So I would advise not doing… That. Lol.