It’s not upsetting as long as the guy isn’t upset and clearly had a good time.
If a guy couldn’t ever cum, I think I’d not like it but if it’s half the time and I’m having a good time I’d not care, I don’t every time either. Probably 95% of the time for me & often twice but not every time, no. Same for husband, I’d say about 95% of the time he does but not every time.
I can see this being an issue in a hookup, kind of assume the guy is there to get off, and if he can’t she might blame herself but it won’t matter in an actual relationship.
It’s not upsetting as long as the guy isn’t upset and clearly had a good time.
If a guy couldn’t ever cum, I think I’d not like it but if it’s half the time and I’m having a good time I’d not care, I don’t every time either. Probably 95% of the time for me & often twice but not every time, no. Same for husband, I’d say about 95% of the time he does but not every time.
I can see this being an issue in a hookup, kind of assume the guy is there to get off, and if he can’t she might blame herself but it won’t matter in an actual relationship.