I have a long distance friend and I’ll admit we get super super flirty sometimes because of how lonely we both are.
So both of us haven’t been laid in months. 8+ for both of us.
Both of us started getting turned on the phone the other day, one thing led to another and she and I had some consexual “mutual masturbation” over the phone. Phone sex simply (cringe I know, but that itch was there)
After we had both finished I just felt sort of ashamed and gross for about an hour.
Is this normal? I’m still very inexperienced with sexuality in general because in such a shy shy guy.
Is this this what they mean when they say post nut clarity or whatever?
It’d be post nut clarity if ya friend was trynna convince you to come out and fuck them in person and you realized that a bang session isn’t worth cross country air fare.
What you’re experience is “my god what have I done…”, usually experienced the first time you go any deeper in the hedonism hole than you have previously, first time you jack off with a partner, first time you get pegged, first time you get pegged with the biggest dildo you can find on Bad Dragon.
Could be a sign of a healthy new boundary, or it could be a sign you have a Dr. Jeckle-esque kink for catharsis via self shame, either way, nothing to worry about as long as you don’t feel compelled to actually seek confession at the nearest cathedral.