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    Sure, pretend to have trouble reading, that helps your case so much

    I’m not pretending, you used language ambiguously. Like I said, wrong pronoun for the first one, namely wrong plurality. Is it one thing or several? I asked about one thing in the first part of my question. So you make me have to guess about what you mean. And then you throw a tantrum when I patiently try to work around you and explain. You could, instead, recognize your ambiguity and clarify.

    Similarly, the second part of question did not ask who you support, but then your answer implied it did. What should I guess from that? Well, you can see my attempts.

    It isn’t fucking hard

    It is obviously incredibly difficult to get a direct answer given how long this thread is.

    “Yes, I’m against genocide, and against supporting genocidal candidates”

    How is that the wrong pronoun?

    You are confused about what quotation marks are used for, again. You never said that sentence, which literally only has one pronoun, in the conjunction “I’m”. I am obviously not confused about that. Here is what you wrote:

    Yes I’m against them

    No, i don’t support them

    I’ve already said this multiple times

    Why pretend otherwise?

    It’s the “them”, in the first sentence, which is a plural pronoun. The first part of my question asks about one thing, genocide. Not plural.

    You should thank me for patient I am with you.

    Genocide and genocidal candidates add up to more than one thing.

    You gave a no answer to one and a yes to the other. Obviously the “them” cannot mean both simultaneously.

    “No, I don’t support genocide or genocidal candidates”

    Really not hard to parse whatsoever.

    Another set of quotes used for something you didn’t say. And remember, the question you are responding to did not ask about your support. You keep confusing yourself with this. The question was whether you are (1) against genocide and whether you are (2) against voting for genocidal candidates.

    Why do you have to act like things are so hard

    As I have demonstrated, you have a bad habit of inserting terms when allegedly answering a yes or no question. And ambiguous and inappropriate pronouns.

    Personally, I would prefer to not talk about language and clarity but this is the nonsense you have me deal with instead of just sticking with a clear yes or no to my yes or no question that it took you 4-5 reminders to even attempt answering.

    I’ve answered your question so many fucking times and you still haven’t actually responded to it.

    When you claimed to have provided an “emphatic no” to my question (“Are you against genocide and voting for genocidal candidates?”) I did respond to it, remember? A “no” response to that question, which you claimed to have provided an “emphatic no” to, would mean you are not against genocide and/or you are not against voting for genocidal candidates. I generously assumed you are actually against genocide since some of your other comments said so, and openly xonclyded that this means you are not against voting for genocidal candidates. Then I went off for a while about what that meant. Then you accused me of misinterpreting your “emphatic no” to my yes or no question.

    And now we are back at “can this person provide a clear yes or no answer”. I have even offered you two interpretations of the second half of my question and dusentangled the parts so that you can clearly describe your meaning in the terms in which I presented my question. Instead you’re throwing in your own new phrasings.

    Anyways, I will attempt to work with your new framings at the end, at least a little. I am too patient.

    You instead just continue to act as if i haven’t answered. Instead of continuing the discussion, you’re just keeping us trapped here, locked in this endless cycle of you asking the question and me answering, over and over until the eventual heat death of the universe.

    Remember, I would rather you just gave yes or no response to my yes or no question. You decided to play around and say unclear things.

    It seems that your “emphatic no” is really a “yes” with unclear pronouns and reframings but somehow this is my fault.

    The crazy thing is, looking through your comment history at your general opinions, it seems we actually agree on almost everything. So why are you so mad at me?

    I am not mad at you. I am dismissive of you for trying to avoid my question like every other liberal and for trying to pretend the situation is not as simple as I presented it. It actually is, liberals just try to treat their inconsistency and cognitive dissonance as some kind of nuanced complexity.

    Regarding having to ask you questions over and over again and try to get you to directly and clearly provide an answer you will stand by: that is obviously me being very latient with you.

    You’re just fucking trolling at this point. Fuck off

    Do a modicum of self-criticism on this exchange and you will see that I am correct in my responses. You are behaving defensively and have said several contradictory things. Unfortunately, you have also done so while trying to shore up liberal excuses for supporting genocide, such as the alleged complexity of big standard liberal electoral logic, and refuse to recognize that it is a dead simple as answering a yes or no question. And look at how much work it has taken you to do that simple thing, with my help. It was not complex. This is literally fifth grade discourse we are having here. But hoo boy, how much did you write that was not just saying “yes” or “no”?

    Anyways, apparently your answer to my question is actually “yes”. You announce, for suresies, that you are against genocide and against voting for genocidal candidates. I am glad we are in agreement!

    So tell me, why was that so hard for you to say?

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      It wasn’t hard for me to say, which is why I’ve already said it many times.

      Are you ready yet to actually respond to my answer?

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        It wasn’t hard for me to say, which is why I’ve already said it many times.

        I had to ask you 4-5 times in a row while you kept trying to share your electoral rationalizations instead. You tried to tell me it was a loaded question for 2-3 exchanges. Please be honest.

        You have now provided a series unclear answers that you have always claimed are very clear despite being completely contradictory of one another. Your “emphatic no”? You have spent the last two comments telling me it was actually a yes, though again, doing so in the least clear way possible.

        Remember, I asked a yes or no question. Your response requires 2 or 3 characters. 4 or 6 if you want to split the question. You have opted to do this instead and blame me for it, lol.

        Are you ready yet to actually respond to my answer?

        I did. See the bottom of my previous comment.

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          No, actually, you’re still beating around the bush regarding what that answer actually means, and trying to browbeat me for not answering despite the fact that i answered days ago. “I do not support genocide or genocide deniers”. Dozens of responses ago. Verbatim. An emphatic NO to supporting genocide or genocide deniers.

          At this point I don’t even care any more. You’re not actually arguing against my answer - you’re instead simply refusing it. There’s no further progress to be made.

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            No, actually, you’re still beating around the bush regarding what that answer actually means

            At no point have I beat around the bush. Given your behavior this must be projection.

            Feel free to tell me what your answer “actually means” since apparently understanding it as a “yes” to my yes or no question I asked 4-5 times remains insufficient.

            and trying to browbeat me for not answering despite the fact that i answered days ago.

            Days ago you said the answer was an “emphatic no” and now it is a yes lmao. Do some self-crit, you are just lying at this point.

            “I do not support genocide or genocide deniers”. Dozens of responses ago. Verbatim. An emphatic NO to supporting genocide or genocide deniers.

            I never asked you about genocide deniers. I have not discussed genocide deniers at all. See how confused you are? Do self-crit and stop blaming me for your errors.

            And don’t think I don’t notice which parts of my responses you skip over. I am giving you many opportunities to stop digging holes. You should take those opportunities.

            At this point I don’t even care any more.

            I see little evidence that you cared at any point. You seem to be far more interested in self-indulgence than taking any form of criticism, which is a liberal trait.

            You’re not actually arguing against my answer - you’re instead simply refusing it.

            I already pointed you to my response at the end of my comment two comments ago. It is actually you that are avoiding in engaging despite all this posturing. I am just waiting for you. Do you need me to repeat it? You could just ask instead of throwing this tantrum and lying.

            There’s no further progress to be made.

            It is funny how you would like tk think I have been the barrier, here. Just do the self-crit and stop accusing me of your bad behavior.

            I will repeat my response, actually, because apparently you need this help but are too proud and liberal to accept it:

            Anyways, apparently your answer to my question is actually “yes”. You announce, for suresies, that you are against genocide and against voting for genocidal candidates. I am glad we are in agreement!

            So tell me, why was that so hard for you to ssay?

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              At no point have I beat around the bush. Given your behavior this must be projection.

              I have made my opinion on the subject quite clear from the outset. Please don’t gaslight me into thinking I’ve somehow been hiding anything. I have not. The entire time, I’ve told you what my position is. You’re simply refused to acknowledge it because you wanted a simple “yes” or “no” answer regarding a subject that is anything but binary.

              Feel free to tell me what your answer “actually means” since apparently understanding it as a “yes” to my yes or no question I asked 4-5 times remains insufficient.

              Okay I’m starting to wonder if maybe you have an overly literal way of thinking. It seems clear that what I was talking about was not you interpretation of my answer, but your opinion on it. As in - do you agree? Disagree? Do you think my answer is insufficient? Do you think I’m lying? What is your actual follow up to “learning” (even though you already knew) that I am against genocide, and against voting for genocidal candidates? What happens next? Are you going to ask me something else, are you going to make a statement regarding this position?

              Days ago you said the answer was an “emphatic no” and now it is a yes lmao.

              So you are overly literal. My answer was an emphatic no regarding supporting genocide and genocide deniers. When asked if I support them, I denied this emphatically. Here’s a question - are you honestly unable to take anything other than the singular word “no” as a negative? Does “absolutely not” count? How about an explanation why, such as “I would never, because that is wrong!”? Now, before you say “but you never said these things”, these are what’s known as examples. When I said “I do not support genocide of genocide deniers”, that is me emphatically denying support for genocide and genocide deniers. An emphatic “no”. When asked “do you” and I say “I do not”, that is a “no” in other words; a negative response; a denial.

              Do some self-crit, you are just lying at this point.

              Here’s some honesty for you - it actually boils my blood to be told I’m lying when I know I’m actually speaking my mind. It angers me a great deal to be misinterpreted to such a degree. I am not lying.

              I see little evidence that you cared at any point.

              Oh, please. Obviously I cared at least a little bit what you thought or else I never would have said anything. Don’t be so facetious.

              You seem to be far more interested in self-indulgence than taking any form of criticism, which is a liberal trait.

              That is a mere insult disguised as political analysis. “Liberal” is not a personality trait, and you are showing little evidence you know anything about what a liberal is other than “someone I don’t like”. As a reminder, liberalism is a political philosophy that arose out of the enlightenment and is characterised by individualism, a devotion to private property, etc etc.

              I already pointed you to my response at the end of my comment two comments ago.

              Really? You mean this:

              Anyways, apparently your answer to my question is actually “yes”. You announce, for suresies, that you are against genocide and against voting for genocidal candidates. I am glad we are in agreement!

              That’s not a response. That’s an acknowledgement. Which, oddly enough, was, in the words of someone, was “like pulling teeth” to get.

              Like I said earlier in this comment, what I’m looking for is an actual response. It’s nice to know “we agree”, but it’s clear to me there’s something else you want to say but are waiting for me to say the right words or something, but I’m not playing that game.

              And don’t think I don’t notice which parts of my responses you skip over.

              What part of “I don’t care” didn’t you get? I wasn’t trying to hide anything.

              I am giving you many opportunities to stop digging holes. You should take those opportunities.

              Nope, not taking that bait.

              Do you need me to repeat it? You could just ask instead of throwing this tantrum and lying.

              I did ask: “Are you ready yet to actually respond to my answer?”

              It is funny how you would like tk think I have been the barrier, here. Just do the self-crit and stop accusing me of your bad behavior.

              Your “criticisms” are just your hurt feelings that I wouldn’t play your game. No, I will not apologise for not following your script.

              I will repeat my response, actually, because apparently you need this help but are too proud and liberal to accept it:

              The fact you keep using “liberal” as a mere insult instead of an actual estimation of someone’s political beliefs says multitudes more than anything else you’ve said, here. For one, it tells me that you’re viewing this as some kind of team sport with a good side and a bad side, which are defined not by morality but by their philosophical proximity to your current beliefs. And combined with the fact that you have yet to say anything even remotely politically relevant to the subject we’re discussing, and are instead focusing on pedantic semantic minutiae, completely ignoring the existence of equivalent statements (such as “I do not” equating to “no”) and nuance (acknowledging that binary morality does not apply here), tells me you’re either just a stubborn troll or are deluded about your own beliefs. Of the two of us here, the one who seems most philosophically liberal is you. You are the only one out of the two of us that actually has faith in liberal democracy.

              And if I’m wrong on that, you’ve given me no reason to believe otherwise - your dogged insistence on this question, and the weight you’ve put on it, tells me you think “voting correctly” to be a very powerful act, capable of actually stopping the genocide.

              Anyways, apparently your answer to my question is actually “yes”. You announce, for suresies, that you are against genocide and against voting for genocidal candidates. I am glad we are in agreement!

              Like I already said - that is not a response. That is an acknowledgement. What comes next?

              So tell me, why was that so hard for you to ssay?

              I already answered this - it wasn’t hard to say. I already said it ages ago. Look:

              “I do not support genocide, or support genocide deniers.”

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                I have made my opinion on the subject quite clear from the outset. Please don’t gaslight me into thinking I’ve somehow been hiding anything. I have not.

                You have been entirely unclear and have been consistently evasive. I have noted several examples of this and you are avoiding them, too. Don’t think I don’t notice what you conveniently skip over when you respond. I am giving you the opportunity to save a little face but instead you keep trying to return focus to topics where you behaved shamefully. You have the options of moving on or getting into it, and when you get into it you have the disadvantage of having behaved very dishonestly in this exchange and being seemingly unable to acknowledge objective errors.

                The entire time, I’ve told you what my position is. You’re simply refused to acknowledge it because you wanted a simple “yes” or “no” answer regarding a subject that is anything but binary.

                I have not asked for a yes or no answer regarding “a subject”. I asked a direct yes or no question and you hemmed and hawed for 5-6 comments and have now more or less fallen apart having provided an answer that was an “emphatic no”, then a “yes and no” and now a “yes”. At some point you will have to either accept that saying “no”, “yes and no”, and “yes” to a yes or no question is inconsistent or you will have to keep dealing with this congitive dissonance, as I am not going to validate your nonsense.

                PS a yes or no question is indeed binary. That is the only property it has aside from being a question.

                Okay I’m starting to wonder if maybe you have an overly literal way of thinking.

                No, you just present a confused mess, don’t respond directly to what is said, and dance around blaming me for your garbled mess of thoughts and deflections. I am not being “overly literal” in expecting a yes or no answer to my question, I stated my question as a direct yes or no precisely because liberal genocide apologists always try to dissemble, leaving their complicit answer implicit. And what did you do in response? You immediately tried to do their exact same dance. A near-complete incapacity to just answer the direct question.

                It seems clear that what I was talking about was not you interpretation of my answer, but your opinion on it.

                As in - do you agree? Disagree?

                I have already stated, twice, that I’m glad we’re in agreement given a “yes” answer. This is now a third time.

                At the same time, I would not be surprised if you later contradicted yourself, as you have been anything but forthright and have already said every possible (explicitly incompatible!) answer to my question.

                Do you think my answer is insufficient?

                I think it is a very low bar to have cleared, but it is an actual “yes” answer to my simple yes or no question, so it is not insufficient for answering the question. 30 comments in, lmao. I did actually directly announce my acceptance of the “yes” twice and then move on to my point about it, but… alas.

                Do you think I’m lying?

                It is not a question that you have lied in this exchange. You have lied about basic facts of what has been said, objectively disprovable. You have also contradicted yourself repeatedly. I think you are about 80% confused and 20% willing to be dishonest to protect your ego, but that combination means you are acting shamefully.

                Because you have literally given me an “emphatic no”, “yes and no”, and now a “yes” answer to my one question, I would be pretty stupid to think you are going to stick with the “yes” answer. But I am willing to be generous and move forward under the assumption that it is your actual, honest answer. I wonder how that generosity will be treated.

                What is your actual follow up to “learning” (even though you already knew) that I am against genocide, and against voting for genocidal candidates? What happens next? Are you going to ask me something else, are you going to make a statement regarding this position?

                I already provided a short follow-up. Presumably you did not read my whole comment before beginning your response. Remember, you have cleared an incredibly low bar. The conversation has to more or less start over at this point, we have returned to my very first point and your very first point. All of these intervening comments? They are just me trying to get you to answer a simple yes or no question, and now you have said “yes”.

                So you are overly literal. My answer was an emphatic no regarding supporting genocide and genocide deniers.

                It is not overly literal to read you say you gave an “emphatic no” to my question, then I go read my question and say, “oh they are saying “no” to it” and work from there. It is a basic baseline of communication. It’s not my fault that you are answering questions I never asked and then presenting them to me as if they were answers to questions I did ask. That is also not being overly literal.

                When asked if I support them, I denied this emphatically.

                You were never asked whether you “support genocide or genocide deniers”. Throw this lie on the pile.

                Two days ago I led with a question regarding support: “So then you agree that you should not support genocide nor vote for genocidal candidates?”. You deflected like liberals do on this topic: “I disagree that the situation is that simple.” I pressed you to answer, you dissembled and tried to talk about a bunch of things re: false choices and then told me it was a loaded question, though you lacked the terminology to just say that. This continued for some time, and I repeated my question. You then said your answer had already been stated as “no”, though of course you had never said that, you were dissembling and rationalizing and saying the question was loaded. The whole point of a loaded question is that you cannot answer it without saying something false. So many self-contradictions, lol. I again repeated that I was looking for a yes or a no and you then provided a lengthy response that I ignored and continue to ignore. Haven’t read it. Not going to. I set my condition and you blew right past it, confirming the dishonest behavior I was originally criticizing.

                Then I asked my question again, albeit rephrased: “Are you against genocide and voting for genocidal candidates?” And then, and only then, did anything about “genocide” deniers pop up, out of the blue, and it was all from your own head. I ask you about voting for genocidal candidates and you act like saying “I don’t support genocide deniers” is an answer to it. And you’ve just done it again! Do you see how confused you are? Of course not, that must be my fault. “Too literal”, lmao.

                Here’s a question - are you honestly unable to take anything other than the singular word “no” as a negative? Does “absolutely not” count? How about an explanation why, such as “I would never, because that is wrong!”? Now, before you say “but you never said these things”, these are what’s known as examples.

                A key part of my original point, which you apparently still don’t get, is that liberals are extremely averse to answering this direct yes or no question. Getting a direct yes or no is the point. And you flailed and flailed and confused yourself instead.

                Now, before you say “but you never said these things”, these are what’s known as examples.

                Certainly not examples of anything you or I have said. They are hypotheticals, poorly-framed. As you are trying to dispute what was or was not said, you might want to communicate what is something you’re making up vs. something you’re saying you did in the past. You have used both implicitly.

                When I said “I do not support genocide of genocide deniers”, that is me emphatically denying support for genocide and genocide deniers. An emphatic “no”. When asked “do you” and I say “I do not”, that is a “no” in other words; a negative response; a denial.

                Yeah again I never asked that question.

                Here’s some honesty for you - it actually boils my blood to be told I’m lying when I know I’m actually speaking my mind. It angers me a great deal to be misinterpreted to such a degree. I am not lying.

                You claimed you answered my question days ago when you obviously did not. Your reattempts at explanation, ones that ignore everything I’ve said to you about this, demonstrate that well enough. You are still presenting your answers to questions I didn’t ask as if you had answered my one question! Still! This isn’t complicated! It’s a yes or no question!

                If you took a few minutes to self-crit and actually read what was said, actually read what I said about this exact thing, you would recognize your error. Unfortunately you are not doing any self-crit at all, and are just trying to lash out irrationally, like a liberal, and are repeating these falsehoods. Sorry buddy, that’s what lying looks like.

                Do self-crit. I am going to skip responses that are just rehashing this one point because they are redundant.

                Oh, please. Obviously I cared at least a little bit what you thought or else I never would have said anything. Don’t be so facetious.

                I said “cared much”, not “cared at all”. You are still confused because you don’t really read and understand what I say to you. If you took a few moments to think about it, you would also realize that your logic here would contradict what you had just said re: not caring anymore. You’re still replying, aren’t you? You should have a conversation with yourself from a few comments ago.

                My response will have to be split in two as it is too long.

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                  Genocide is, of course, wrong. Supporting those that perpetuate it is also wrong.

                  Not a yes or no, but it still equates to the same thing.

                  Right?

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                    “Supporting those that perpetuate it is also wrong” lacks the specific point of my question, the part intended to be agitational. If you hadn’t noticed, liberals are in their usual panic mode a few weeks before the presidential election. It is in exactly this context that they cannot imagine doing anything other than voting for their team. They already think of themselves as acting against genocide by voting for a genocidal candidate, in fact. Have you not seen this?

                    So while I could say that and say they are the same thing, I do not presume everyone else would mean the same thing. Hence why I ask a direct question and am not wishy-washy about this shit.

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                  I do not support genocide or genocidal candidates.

                  Can we move on to the next step yet?

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                  I think genocide is wrong, and candidates that deny yet support the genocide of Palestine should not be supported.

                  Satisfied yet?

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                  I do not think it is right to support genocide, or to vote for genocidal candidates.

                  Where do we go from here?

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                  I agree that it’s wrong to support genocide, or to vote for genocidal candidates.

                  Where from here?

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                That is a mere insult disguised as political analysis. “Liberal” is not a personality trait, and you are showing little evidence you know anything about what a liberal is other than “someone I don’t like”.

                It is actually a very common critique in socialist circles. You would recognize it had you ever participated with any principled organization. Heck, Mao wrote a funny little memo that included this critique several times.

                As a reminder, liberalism is a political philosophy that arose out of the enlightenment and is characterised by individualism, a devotion to private property, etc etc.

                Congratulations on skimming Wikipedia and the like.

                Really? You mean this:

                Yes except you left out the sentence after. It’s a question.

                That’s not a response. That’s an acknowledgement.

                It’s both, though again you missed the next sentence. The only other sentence after it. I did actually explicitly repeat myself, you have no reason to be this confused except that you didn’t read my comment before starting replying.

                Which, oddly enough, was, in the words of someone, was “like pulling teeth” to get.

                Not at all. I have consistently offered acknowledgement the moment a seemingly clear answer has been given. I took “emphatic no” and you complained when I ran with it immediately, remember? And now I’ve said, “Okay so you’re giving a yes” and have proceeded to return to the point I was making in trying to get you to answer.

                Like I said earlier in this comment, what I’m looking for is an actual response. It’s nice to know “we agree”, but it’s clear to me there’s something else you want to say but are waiting for me to say the right words or something, but I’m not playing that game.

                The last 30 or so comments have not had much more going for them in my mind than, “I wonder if this person can just answer a yes or no question” and “wow that sure is a lot of bullshitting to correct”. Having acknowledged the “yes”, I did already try to go in a direction to drive home my point but unfortunately you decided to ignore my question. If you want more than that, or expected more than that, you are mistaken. If there’s something more you’d like to talk about than the point I’m trying to emphasize, you’ll have to ask me. Like a reasonable person.

                I am currently not waiting for you to say any particular words. You have, apparently, provided a “yes” answer to my question. Right now we are spending most of our time on your false statements about what you had previously said to me and how you have been oh-so-clear despite the obvious reality of confusion and not even knowing what question I had asked.

                What part of “I don’t care” didn’t you get? I wasn’t trying to hide anything.

                The pattern is that you ignore and skip over my specific explanations and evidenced callouts of your confusion. You’re welcome for my patience on this topic.

                Nope, not taking that bait.

                You think it is bait for me to tell you that I have given you opportunities to stop digging holes? Huh? The mind boggles.

                I did ask: “Are you ready yet to actually respond to my answer?”

                Your answer: “yes”. Who knows what kind of further response you expected to get, but I did respond in asking you a question. I think I need to remind you of exactly how petty this conversation has had to be. There is not a grand lecture I’ve been hiding in my back pocket, trying to prevent you from seeing. I’ve been trying to get you to answer a straightforward yes or no question and you’ve been playing games. Now that your games are (maybe?) winding down, it seems like you thought there would be more to it than that. The only “more” there is: why did you fight so hard against answering a simple yes or no? I have, of course, already answered this question: it is because dissembling on this topic prevents cognitive dissonance for liberals. I am trying to get you to actually confront it. That is my response. Funny that I need to not only explain it but bring your attention to it, I have in no way been unclear as to my point.

                Your “criticisms” are just your hurt feelings that I wouldn’t play your game. No, I will not apologise for not following your script.

                I don’t have hurt feelings. As you can see, I am very patient. But you have quite a bit of self-crit to do if you ever want to be useful for a struggle against capitalism.

                The fact you keep using “liberal” as a mere insult instead of an actual estimation of someone’s political beliefs says multitudes more than anything else you’ve said, here.

                The liberalism here is the elevation of one’s own ego and political journey over emphasizing truth, self-crit, and moving forward for the betterment of a project. We are spending all of our time on things like questions you invented on my behalf and talking about “loaded” questions that are not really loaded and pretenses that you said “no” when you went on long-winded rants saying everything except “yes” or “no” oh but actually your answer to my question was “yes and no” but wait no it’s actually “yes”. This is because you are failing to accept your errors and move on.

                For one, it tells me that you’re viewing this as some kind of team sport with a good side and a bad side, which are defined not by morality but by their philosophical proximity to your current beliefs.

                You are having trouble understanding my meaning on this topic because you are completely unfamiliar with the social context. Remember, you told me that you are not liberal. And yet when I make references that socialists and anarchists would understand, you start coming to conclusions exclusive to a liberal framing. Such as this one. And when you don’t understand, what is your knee-jerk reaction? You begin making things up and provide bad faith assumptions, then accept them as answers. Guess what political tendency teaches these behaviors? Guess which tendencies recognize them and fight hard against them in their own organizations?

                The only way for you to move past this is to self-crit and have a touch of humility. It is obvious that you are extremely new to this topic. Instead of trying to pretend, why not just say, “what do you mean?” Would that kill you?

                And combined with the fact that you have yet to say anything even remotely politically relevant to the subject we’re discussing, and are instead focusing on pedantic semantic minutiae

                It’s not minutiae to say “I need a yes or no answer to my yes or no question that is the entire point” and then press you to directly answer it while you hem and haw. It is, in fact, the point I was making. At the meta level you have already demonstrated my point, lol. It’s not like I have hidden that point, either. I have stated it outright several times.

                If I were being pedantic I would sound very different.

                completely ignoring the existence of equivalent statements (such as “I do not” equating to “no”)

                “I do not” is something you have only said in response to a question I simply did not ask. The genocide deniers thing.

                and nuance (acknowledging that binary morality does not apply here)

                I don’t think I could have been any clearer that I had no interest at all in your further rationalizations so long as you could not answer the question directly. That is the entirety of what I have said about this. If you would like to discuss your moral fretting you can ask a question or present something and I can decide whether I will indulge you. You are not entitled to my indulgence, only my honesty, and I have been very clear about this.

                tells me you’re either just a stubborn troll or are deluded about your own beliefs.

                Regarding this conversation, I am simply patient, honest, correct, and focused. I don’t think that’s a very high bar to clear, to be honest.

                Of the two of us here, the one who seems most philosophically liberal is you. You are the only one out of the two of us that actually has faith in liberal democracy.

                Who said I had faith in liberal democracy? I am simply agitating liberals.

                And if I’m wrong on that, you’ve given me no reason to believe otherwise - your dogged insistence on this question, and the weight you’ve put on it, tells me you think “voting correctly” to be a very powerful act, capable of actually stopping the genocide.

                Liberals believe that politics is electoralism. To agitate among them, you must sometimes frame challenges in their language. None of them are going to become principled socialists with a single sentence. They must be knocked off balance where they are.

                I already answered this - it wasn’t hard to say. I already said it ages ago. Look:

                “I do not support genocide, or support genocide deniers.”

                A true cherry on top to repeat the answer to a question I didn’t ask, lmao.

                So anyways, why did it take you so long to answer my question, liberal? Why not just answer it right away? Why say the question was loaded? Why say it was “not so simple” instead of answering despite you apparently being able to just say “yes” the entire time? Why provide 3 distinct answers? Why answer questions I didn’t ask and then present them as if I had?

                These questions are all rhetorical, of course. They only have one point and it’s related to my original one: liberals with dissemble rather than deal with the harsh truths of what they support because it helps them avoid cognitive dissonance. They will imply a “no” through their attempts to justify voting for genocidal candidates, but are too afraid to just say “no” because they would have to see a harsh truth about themselves and their political obligations. They use the same rationalizations you provided rather than give a “yes” or “no”. Now, of course, having answered “yes”, you will believe yourself to be in a different position than them. I’m sure you will think, “but that doesn’t describe me! I don’t vote for genocidal candidates!” But there you were, avoiding the question and using the same form of cognitive escape hatch (“complexity” lmao). What was the impetus?

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                  why did you fight so hard against answering a simple yes or no?

                  Already told you that in my very first response to you. Because this election isn’t as simple as voting for or against genocide.

                  And then I quite quickly actually answered, but it wasn’t in the precise format you expected, so you ignored it (and even admitted ignoring it).

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                    Already told you that in my very first response to you. Because this election isn’t as simple as voting for or against genocide.

                    Do you not know what a rhetorical question is? I even spelled out the meaning for you lmao.