• JamesFire@lemmy.world
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    3 hours ago

    If you dont consent to your poly partner fucking someone else

    Whoa buddy, drop the assumptions. You’re assuming your partner is poly. Among other things.

    Thats so fucked, and I can’t believe you’re defending it

    I can’t believe you’re defending cheating and then excusing it as “we’re just poly” (Even though you absolutely did not make that clear to begin with, and are now changing the circumstances of your argument. Maybe list out any assumptions you’re using?)

    • jagged_circle@feddit.nl
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      40 minutes ago

      I would never marry anyone who wasn’t poly. The law is the one making assumptions here.

      My point is that it shouldn’t be possible for my spouse to persue criminal action against me for fucking someone else in a poly relationship if we’re married. Thats fucked.

      The law shouldn’t make it not allowed to fuck someone outside your marriage by default. As I said before, thats cool to make it optional like a prenup, if you’d like, but it shouldn’t be the default