• dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world
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      7 days ago

      I think boils down to “similar optics, different gender identity”, but I’m neither of these flavors so I really don’t know. But for this joke, I think either works.

      Calling for assistance: we need a ruling here. Halp.

      • Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de
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        4 days ago

        i would say femboys are generally seen as not wanting to be female, just feminine. Same as how crossdressing doesn’t make you trans, it just means you like crossdressing.

        a term sometimes used synonymously with femboy is tomgirl, as a mirror to tomboy, and you wouldn’t start calling tomboys trans men would you? They’re people who identify as female but present less femininely.

        • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works
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          6 hours ago

          so the feminine character is a femboy and not trans because of the bi flag in panel 2? also what’s the difference between a femboy and tomgirl?
          the more I read this thread the more confused I get 😓