Sorry kitten my comment doesn’t seem to have posted, I just noticed. Its really disappointing that your husband doesn’t recognise how hard this has been for you, it’s not been a nice task and cheerleading would have helped.
Bringing it up in therapy was a great idea, it’s a safe, managed space but then the session went off the rails. You’re both struggling which makes it hard. How have things been since?
We talked over the milkshakes and turns out once his spiralling calmed down, he felt better and was more kind. Shame he took me down with him lol, but we’re doing much better yesterday and today. Whew.
Sorry kitten my comment doesn’t seem to have posted, I just noticed. Its really disappointing that your husband doesn’t recognise how hard this has been for you, it’s not been a nice task and cheerleading would have helped.
Bringing it up in therapy was a great idea, it’s a safe, managed space but then the session went off the rails. You’re both struggling which makes it hard. How have things been since?
We talked over the milkshakes and turns out once his spiralling calmed down, he felt better and was more kind. Shame he took me down with him lol, but we’re doing much better yesterday and today. Whew.
That’s good kitten hopefully it continues and if it doesn’t, lean on us
😊💕🫂