Hi. I’m Patriarch, im into power imbalance, tpe, debris, sadism and more from a sexual point of view. I’m a communicative guy and Dom, like to talk and exchange and try my best to prevent communication issues in a second language 🇺🇸.

If you want to interact, just communicate on Lemmy. I try to be active as possible in this community to replace my Reddit account and find a federated home. If you want to DM, reach me here.

I like to post anti feminism, sexual humilating and disguting thinks against women. But only from a kinky point if view. Making that kind of sex with a women always need her consent. Be nice to everyone, be kind and never forget, everyone has the same rights and may speech free.

Enjoy the post if you are also into this kind of kink. But alway understand, that their stands a “Do not until she has allowed it” before every post ;-).

This profile is only focused on #kink #nsfw in combination. There is no plan, no wish and no reason to go against feminism in our society as such. On the contrary. Let’s find out how it will be when everyone has the same rights and opportunities. And even then, we’ll be able to do whatever we find horny in our bedrooms. ;)

  • Patriarch 🍆😈@lemmynsfw.comOPM
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    1 year ago

    For me everything starts with trust. When two trust each other, they can try things together that are okay with them. No matter what it is. If there is a common understanding that this is okay, then you can try it. And from my own experience I can say that some things you only try out once because you really don’t like it. That’s why this place is important to me. Not everything I like in my head is something I want to bring to reality. On the contrary. Some things are much nicer if they can have no effect.

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      1 year ago

      Yes! Kinda the problem with me is i have a hard time trusting anyone and I feel like it’d take years before I could really do the things I want with them :/

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        1 year ago

        Everyone ticks differently, no matter what inclinations and what he/she finds attractive in fantasy. That’s why there is no strategy, no advice that always fits and if you just apply it, everything will be fine.

        Building trust takes time. Communication is the most important thing for me at this time. When you understand the other person’s perspective better, you’re more likely to be supportive.

        I don’t think you should make excuses for taking a long time to build trust. Sometimes I have the feeling that we basically do it too quickly, the connections then become hectic and superficial but not so deep that you can rely on this person unconditionally. And that should be a dom/top/… at least, at the latest when she trusts him blindly. 😉