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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/Odd_Phone5778 on 2023-10-07 12:52:48.

After almost 2 years of trying my husband and I are finally pregnant, today we got the results of my NIPT which includes gender results. He was excited and told his mom, later in the day they were on a phone call together and after being told not to say it as I didn’t know yet and was waiting for a gender reveal she shouted “What?! I told you that you were having a boy!”, I’m heartbroken. I wanted to wait and share the moment with my parents and grandparents at a small gender reveal where I get to cut a cake and it was ruined, she doesn’t even understand what she did wrong and is calling us sensitive for being upset! This has destroyed me, I’m returning the shirt I bought for the gender reveal and I don’t want her to be part of my or my son’s life, but, I know that my husband would never allow her to be cut off so I told him I’ll compromise and she can be part of our son’s life but I never want her alone with him, if she can’t listen to one simple instruction what makes you think she’ll listen to our parenting choices? He’s PISSED about this and it caused a massive fight, he says “look how I turned out, I’m fine”, to me while he may be alive it’s been over 20 years since she had a baby, she is emotionally abusive and doctor shopped to have him placed on several unnecessary medications. Also, thisis the same women who had called the cops on him for stupid reasons, like asking her what college degree she had and telling the cops he threatened to unalive her, same thing for asking for her wifi password and thinks baby wearing is SA. AITA for not trusting my MIL alone with our son?