• jadranur@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    I’m queer myself and it feels like famous people only support us when it’s convenient for them, and good for PR. So yeah disappointing af

    • Provider0fMyCheddar@alien.topB
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      10 months ago

      It’s the reaction that’s the problem. There will be loads of gay footballers out there, but I imagine most of them just want to live their lives. They want to be known as themselves and not just based on one minor characteristic (sexual identity). Anyone who comes out just becomes the “gay footballer”.

      This lad is the perfect example. If he wasn’t gay none of us would know or care who he was. This sort of reaction undermines the wider cause and makes it less likely for the more prominent footballers to come out.

      • cavejohnsonlemons@alien.topB
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        10 months ago

        Kind of agree, but feel like that problem goes away once a handful have come out.

        It’s a double-edge sword, in order to truly live as a gay player without anyone caring, a few are gonna have to go through being one and ppl caring about it.