Have you guys ever went through a LDR before?

My last relationship is a 1500km distance one. At first we both believe we can work it through, and she also reassure me it’s worth it(my first relationship, but not for her), but whoop, in the end a tons of problem surfaced and it just doesn’t work, so she breakup with me. That actually sour the whole relationship thing for me and i find myself having worsening trust issue since then.

Will i do it again? Yeah! ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ (but actually idk but maybe still yes lol)

  • rom1215_@monyet.cc
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    1 year ago

    Both of my previous relationships went through a period of LDR. While I wouldn’t say that the distance was the main factor for either of the relationship not working out, it certainly played a role in both indeed. The part about distance was mostly on that I am someone who thinks that direct communication - in person - is crucial in dealing with major problems in relationship, and being in different locations obviously makes this a challenge. But more so was that I had my own issues, had my own insecurities, so we didn’t survive the challenges of LDR. Would I do it again? I’m not actively looking for it, for sure haha. But I’d like to think that I am growing as a person and partner, especially in working on my own issues and insecurities, so if I’m to get into this situation again, maybe we’d have a happy ending?

    • Annoyed_🦀 🏅@monyet.ccOP
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      1 year ago

      Same haha, i’m not active looking for it, but i feels like if it given the chance again i hope it’s not too far. Cut off by sea might be what really break mine apart, and the breakup is just a message without having a chance to even speak to her.

      Maybe that’s for the best ¯\_(ツ)_/¯