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  • I understand how frustrating it is. You can tell yourself “mistakes happen”, but that doesn’t seem to make you feel any better.

    Imagine instead if your partner had put in months of work to make you happy and then made a single mistake. Would you be angry at them, or would you still love them for the effort they put in and forgive them?

    Don’t be too hard on yourself. There are solutions, but it will take time to think of them – even the really obvious ones. Take some time off from concentrating on the problem (even sleep on it if you have the time), consciously relax, then start looking for what can be changed. Strong emotions make it really difficult to think logically.

    You may be surprised at how much most people care. Many people will empathise with your position (some who’ve done the same thing) and do everything in their power to help you fix it.

    In the end it doesn’t really matter if nothing works out. You’ll still be disappointed, but there will be other opportunities in the future.





  • A lot depends on how you use it and how accessible it is to the outside internet.

    I have a few smart devices, but they are all controlled locally. If my internet connection stops working, I still have full control of everything. I also have manual options in case my home network stops working.

    Not advice, do your own research: I don’t see a big problem it Bluetooth. It can be hacked, but the person hacking has to be near you. That alone protects you from about 8 billion people.












  • 18107@aussie.zonetoAuDHD@lemmy.worldHow do you date?
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    6 days ago

    I tried dating sites for a while with much disappointment. I tried joining a few activity groups, but didn’t find anyone who really understood me.

    Story time

    By chance, I happened to meet someone through a mutual friend. All communication was online and I didn’t even know what they looked like. We played a few games together, and I enjoyed their company.

    We were both invited to visit our mutual friend, so we met in person there and got along well. They had to drive 700km (450mi) to get home.
    I wanted to stay on contact and I realized that I had 2 options. I could do nothing and probably never see them again, or I could offer to share the drive with them and end up in a town I’d never been to with no family or other friends nearby.
    Going somewhere new like that was a terrifying concept, but I was even more scared of never seeing them again.

    I offered to share the drive, and to my surprise, they said yes. I ended up staying with them for a week to get the best prices on flights home. It was basically a sleepover with my best friend, and it was the best week of my life (so far).

    After getting back home, I realized how much happier I had been there. A few weeks later I packed everything into a rental car and moved in permanently.

    I never actually dated anyone, I just claimed my human and moved in with them. We’ve been married for several years and they’re still my best friend.

    I can’t offer much advice about finding someone because I just got lucky.
    I can tell you that stereotypical dating is far less important than finding a friend who makes you feel comfortable and safe, and brings out the best in you.


  • LLMs are great at language problems. If you’re learning the syntax of a new programming language or you’ve forgotten the syntax for a specific feature, LLMs will give you exactly what you want.

    I frequently use AI/LLMs when switching languages to quickly get me back up to speed. They’re also adequate at giving you a starting point, or a basic understanding of a library or feature.

    The major downfall is if you ask for a solution to a problem. Chances are, it will give you a solution. Often it won’t work at all.
    The real problem is when it does work.

    I was looking for a datatype that could act as a cache (forget the oldest item when adding a new one). I got a beautifully written class with 2 fields and 3 methods.
    After poking at the AI for a while, it realized that half the code wasn’t actually needed. After much more prodding, it finally informed me that there was actually an existing datatype (LinkedHashMap) that would do exactly what I wanted.

    Be aware that AI/LLMs will rarely give you the best solution, and often give you really bad solutions even when an elegant one exists. Use them to learn if you want, but don’t trust them.


  • 18107@aussie.zonetoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.worldWhat if we got rid of stocks?
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    6 days ago

    I think a more effective idea would be to remove all profits (and maybe executive income and bonuses) from the company for a fixed period of time instead of a fixed fine that’s less than the profit from doing the illegal activity.

    Investors won’t be happy if they’re getting nothing, so they’ll be more careful with their investments, and no-one will have to pay to house thousands of unwitting investors in prisons.