I’m a sub to my wife. When she hurts me, it gives her a satisfying sense of control. She’s very empathetic and can see my desire and pain, and me fighting through the pain to ask more.

If I had to sum up the goal of BDSM: intimacy.

Just as sharing a sexual experience is intimate, so is sharing a painful one.

Of course, it’s not for everyone and it’s not universal.

I haven’t had a problem with spam or anything, probably ok for now. Is there some benefit to sharing the workload?

Great job. Good show of your knowledge of his body.

Aw, cute tiny balls.

The blonde, but damn both their butts are so cute.

My wife is definitely into a little bit of feminization, a lot of domination, a good amount of chastity, but also her own things. She likes my look (a little androgenous) including my facial and body hair, so I need to seek feminization in subtle ways – girly clothing, pierced ears, etc. but she’s definitely into it.

I think every person is going to have their various quirks and preferences and nothing will match porn one to one. However, I feel like my own relationship is better than what I see in porn.

Sissy fetish has some problematic pieces, objectification of women included. I think getting more involved in the queer community could give a broader perspective about what you like about sissification and better integrate it into your life and relationship.

Sorry for the rambling reply, I need coffee!

This would be very welcome on [email protected]

Get the cage. Make sure not to go too big to start, easiest mistake.

I would recommend a kink3d cobra knock off for around $20 (AliExpress) as a good starting point because they fit well, are light (in plastic), come in black or pink, and include a variety of rings so you can experiment with size. I wear the baby/nub size and it’s very comfy!

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