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  • Because it takes the edge off anxiety? I haven’t even been on it all that long and I entirely forgot it did this. Holy crap, what was I even like before! I remember being in constant pain from the migraines. More pain than I even noticed I was in, weirdly enough. Is it helping your migraines? My head still feels like Swiss cheese, or something. But more brain fog and heavy than pain, now.


  • I have just discovered chia pudding. If you like Boba tea, (is that what it’s called?) it’s got that same bubble poppy, feel, if you don’t, puree / grind the chia first. 1tbsp chia, Add whatever flavor you like, chocolate pudding mix, drinking chocolate, whatever. And a cup of whatever milk you like (or water). (I add some flax meal but it kinda tastes like dirt a little, especially if you put too much.) add whatever protein powder, pea protein is flavourless. Bam, tastes like chocolate pudding. Good fibre, good brain food (aka omega something something) I actually find I have more energy when I eat it. I make a jar of it and just have a couple of table / tea spoons a day. Good for a few days to a week. Oh, wait a few hours to overnight for it to solidify.


  • But you’re operating from a state that, all people operate in good faith. These people will twist the narrative no matter what you do. They don’t wait for you to validate them. They twist reality and logic and manipulate events. There is no reasoning with these types. If you sit back and do nothing, they’ll twist that to their agenda just as much as if you do something. But sitting back guarantees a smooth path of no resistance, they get thier agenda easily. Resisting means they don’t get there as easily. Nobody in history made changes by sitting back and sending love vibes, my friend, I truly wish that were the case. Women lost their lives, just for the right to vote. How many rights have been removed or are under threat right now? I mean absolutely no disrespect, and I can see your logic, I just feel like maybe you aren’t personally familiar with these manipulative types. I get that you understand reactive abuse and you see they’re trying to use that, but it really doesn’t matter, they’ll do the same thing anyway, so maybe the path is somewhere in the middle, not giving them a reason, but not sitting back quietly and there’s no waiting for someone to oppose them, it’s now, right now.







  • LavaPlanet@lemm.eetoADHD@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    9 days ago

    You’re hyper critical of yourself, but not in any way noticing or assessing your partners behavior. Your partner is at very best a HUGE jerk,and ableist, and at worst, purposefully abusing you and utilizing your disability to gaslight. You just described emotional, psychological abuse and gaslighting, from your partner. No, you won’t ever be able to repair this relationship, they will always make you feel like you aren’t good enough, that’s their aim, that’s on purpose. If you do ever meet their (purposefully impossible) ridiculously unachievable expectations, the goal posts will move. Stress to this level will cause your adhd to become more enhanced, so even trying to not be adhd, isn’t going to work in this, very damaging environment, you find yourself in. Please let this relationship end, and make plans to safely leave yourself. Don’t let them know you’re leaving. You need to leave.