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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • When you say you feel like you hit a wall, how deep are we talking? When you use lube, are you applying it directly to the toy, inserting it via an applicator or something, or both?

    Anal is largely mental partially physical. You have to train yourself to relax and stretch. Inserting lube inside you is also a big help. Lubing up a toy directly makes it easier, but you’re still fighting unlubed skin until you’ve penetrated yourself far enough to spread it around, and it’s almost never enough just in the toy.

    Use an egregious amount of lube. Like, tons of it. Get a large syringe, fill it with lube, and squirt it inside you. You literally cannot use too much.

    For me, i hit a ‘wall’ at about 5-6in inside me that requires me to focus, relax, and position myself so my insides align to allow me to take it deeper. Positioning training is good for this- what positions work best are different for everyone.

    Anyway that was a mind dump, let me know if you have any other questions, and to to the Lemmy sissy community 🥰