I have some Finish friends who thought this was just a symbolic position. I think a lot of the EU democracies are in risk to be falling over to the right without the checks and balances working like the average person expects them to, scary shit if you’d ask me
That’s been the status quo for a while now
If testing this properly is your problem you should invest time in integration testing, running them on an in-memory database is an option as well. I think retrieving all the data and “caching” it like you call it has some negative consequences, for example what if the validation for some action fails and you didn’t need to load whatever you preloaded? Waste of a call to the db
I’ve taken smartphones and laptops, given for work but then never returned when leaving. Nothing permanent for hosting but I have used our infra for games and file sharing.
Do you want her to stress about the same things you stress about or do you want to be able to talk to her about those things? I think the first one is sort of mean, not you for wanting that but if she can be ignorant and happy why not? If she doesn’t want you to talk about it at all that’s a different story