Friendly Pibbling

It’s legal for physicians to not treat trans people here, and the medical transphobia was high in the past, only worse now. I’ve used Planned Parenthood in the past and it was better than nothing but but they were not very knowledgeable on trans care, they would often tell me things like I was the first trans person they’d seen. Hopefully I find some advice on something local in the groups I asked in already.

It’s more likely they’ll take my money and not provide any care. Which is a bit of an issue since I’m saving up to flee.

Relate to this on a deep level. The fat phobia was always around in our younger years and eventually it came to live within us. Once upon a time I thought I had to be thin to be feminine but it’s so untrue (honestly putting on some weight to help ‘redistribute’ features helped a lot). Femmes and women exist in all shapes and forms and it’s so violent that we have to second guess ourselves when we’re hungry. Attractiveness shouldn’t depend on your weight, it feels nice to be chased sometimes, but those that love you will care about more than just how many pounds you aren’t 🌈 Wishing you distance from the people that try to put such evil thoughts in your head 💜