I believe many, but not all, sissies like to have sex with women (i.e., aren’t exclusively 100% attracted to cock). Some may like to do it ‘as a guy’ versus as a sissy. I’ve been asking myself this question. And thought I’d try to spark some convo here ☺️ Your answers don’t need to map 100% to the question, just use it for inspiration

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    So, I guess my sissy journey is a little different than most because my partner and I are both switches. I’m kept in chastity most of the time now, but sometimes we’ll have a night where I’m allowed to be released and do whatever I want to mommy- just to be caged back up and possibly punished depending on what was done.

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      That sounds incredibly hot. You’re really hitting the nail on the head of what I was trying to get at. To sound really clinical: primarily engaging one’s primary fantasies while not neglecting secondary ones. I think with a woman I’d like a dynamic where I’m not 100% sub/bottom, but it’s probably >90%. Anyway, I’m happy for you and your partner (or mommy)! It sounds like you have a really nice sex life and I’d be happy to hear more any time :)

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    The sissy concept, and my exploration of it, has helped me appreciate that nothing gets me hotter than being submissive and feminine in a sexual context, and I don’t think being with a woman would change that. For example, I find reverse pegging, pussy-in-vagina (PIV)-free relationships, and cuckolding really hot. However, I think it probably makes sense to use my penis for PIV sex too, both for mine and my partner’s satisfaction

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    I’m only into women/trans women. I didn’t know until recently that the term for this is apparently called being gynesexual (being interested in the female form/femininity).

    I think my ultimate fetish would be to have a woman dominate over me. Humiliation and degradation are quite big turn ons for me, and they align quite well with the sissy concept. I’m not a very feminine looking person, but if they can make me feel very feminine, I think that would be the biggest turn on.

    She can keep my dick caged for as long as she wants :) Who knows? Maybe if I’m a good sissy, she’ll let it out every once in a while and let me put it inside her!

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      For the last several months, I’ve thought that submitting to a women would be my greatest fantasy. However, lately, all I can think about is cock. I took a look at some strap-on content last night, and to my surprise I was like, “nope this is not as good as a nice big cock.” I guess I still have a split where I think women’s bodies are overall sexier, but a big cock is the sexiest body part there is. But these are just abstract fantasies. IRL, either a dominant woman or a guy with a big cock as a partner would suit me fine :)

      The concepts of femdom, humiliation, and degradation are interesting, because they’re quite vague or open-ended, and what I mean by humiliation may not be what others mean, etc. I really like affirmation, like being called a good girl or encouraged to be feminine and sissy.

      My ideal femdom flavour, I think, is pretty vanilla. I don’t really want to lick toes, but I want her to be in control of me and my orgasm, and I want our sex life to totally revolve around her pleasure. I don’t know if that makes me more of a psychological sub. I think I’d only like light humiliation, about wanting to be a sissy and not being a ‘real’ man. Being told I have a small clitty, reverse pegging, cuckolding, being spanked, having sissy sex filmed or in front of others. I think the only thing I might consider degradation that I might like is being locked in a big cage while being cuckolded 🤤